翻译"遇到困难的时候,我们需要的不是彼此埋怨,而是相互帮助."(not...but)

When difficulties come to us,what we need is not to complain about each other but to help each other.

When encountering difficulties, we need to not blame each other, but to help each other.
不准不要分

when facing difficulties, what we need is not claiming but helping each other

when there is a problem, we don't need complains but help from each other.

What wee need is not complaining but help each other when get difficulties.